6.28.2013

dance your friday away.

friday, friday, we all love friday!!
i haven't been the best blogger this week... but honestly, i'm okay with that.
home girl just hasn't had the time, nor the brain juice. and that's no different for today.
so i hope ya'll are all okay with backin' it up whitney style and that being it.
if you're not okay with it... too bad.

back dat azz up, friday. by Julia Martin on Grooveshark


oh boy, takes me back to my college days...
have a wonderful weekend!!

6.27.2013

hair envy and the goddess tool.

i think i've used just about every hair straightener known to man over the last few years.
some were mine... some were my sorority sisters' (thanks DZ house).
either way, i feel like i have pretty much tried them all.

okay so i felt that way until i started blogging and all i kept seeing were HANA salon this, and HANA salon that.
somehow up until that point i had completely missed the boat on the miracle that was HANA. no, not hana marin from PLL, sillies.
naturally, when i did hear about it... i was completely envious of all of the pretty, straight hair i was seeing as a result.
especially because i have such a lion mane on my head that some refer to as hair.
so when misikko contacted me asking if i would like to do a review on their product. my reaction went a little something like this:
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and of course i said yes. duh.

now misikko knows how to hook a girl up with some goodies. and i like goodies.
i mean come on... no party is complete without a bag full of candy and air horns. am i right, or am i right?
not only did i get my amazing hair goddess of a tool. i also received a pretty little case, ELF makeup (which is my favorite), some hand sani (a social worker loves her hand sani), and some other fun little things.

needless to say- their goody bag box already had me sold. with or without the straightener.
ha. who am i kidding? the straightener was of course the best part...

it took my lindsay lohan of blow dried hair...

and turned it into this. which is much more acceptable for public appearances.
did you hear that lindsay lo? acceptable for public appearances.

alright now down to business. what do i love most about the HANA 1" flat iron pro? 
everything.

oh, you want the details? okay, okay...
-the look. it's not loud and obnoxious with it's design.
the pink camo straightener i had in high school was a little bit much for my travel bag.
-the size. hello perfect 1" baby. i sorta kinda love you. you get every last jerry curl hiding behind my ears.
-the settings. not only do you have a number of heat settings to choose from... you also have a guide that comes with your product to tell you exactly which setting to use in order to not fry your hair.
this might be my favorite thing about it to tell you the truth. because when a lot of home girls see 450degrees they're all like  
"hell yeah- let's straighten this biznitch right up!"
and then bad things happen.

let's just say that in a nutshell, i'm a fan. and you should be too.
thank you HANA salon and misikko. you will forever have a happy customer!
and i will forever have some ballin' straight hair. whoop whoop.

6.24.2013

motorcycles and beer chapstick.

another weekend for the books... and another monday that i want to crawl under a rock.
or just my covers, really. that would be so nice right about now.

friday M and i met some friends in downtown asheville for the alive after 5 celebration they put on once a month.
live music, food vendors, free goodies, and locally brewed goodness? i am so there.
downtown asheville is full of art and character. the quote above is written on the side of a building. just one of the many decorations that don the city. if you ever get the chance to visit here... take it. you will love it.

saturday was our adventure day. i actually got up the nerve to ride a long distance with M on his motorcycle. i had only ever ridden it around town, so i was nervous when he wanted to actually go somewhere for the day on it. everything worked out though and i ended up having a blast! i've learned that it's best to stop worrying about things and just say yes to adventure.  
(i say that now, but don't count on it for everything...)
we spent saturday at dolly wood with M's mom for her company's annual picnic. my phone stayed in a plastic bag the whole time so it wouldn't get soaked on any of the water roller coasters (the only roller coasters i like to ride, especially in 90degree heat)...  which resulted in no more pictures of the rest of our day, sadly.

sunday i fought the clouds and tried to get some sun by a friend's pool. it didn't work out the greatest... but the whole laying around, not doing anything part was worth it.


and now i'm back at my desk. yay.
happy monday!
Sami's Shenanigans

6.21.2013

letter writin and backin it up, per usual.

dear M: you are wanting me to ride the motorcycle to gatlinburg, tn tomorrow and you're down right refusing to take our regular vehicles. i'm kind of freaking out a little bit at the thought of it. i mean, i've ridden it around our small little town, and had a blast doing so... but an hour and a half away? eeeek- it makes me nervous thinking about it.
however... i really really really wanna go to dollywood and ride some rides. so...

dear instagram: kudos for finally hopping on the video band wagon! even though it kind of sucks that i JUST downloaded the vine this week... oh well. maybe i'll put you to good use this weekend. bike ride video of me screaming the whole way anyone? or maybe with me out-singing ludacris. who knows, i guess we'll see what happens.
Move Bitch Get Out The Way by Ludacris on Grooveshark

dear amazon: i have been seriously hitting you up this week for my newest summer reads! i cannot waaaaait to get some of my books... and just in time for a beach vacay in july!
ps- every time i take books on vacation i never actually read them. but it's a good effort, right?

dear kimye: north west. north west. are you serious??? what kind of name is that?
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check out that double link up action we have going on today. madness.


6.20.2013

high school letters for the win.

i've been dealing with a lot these days in my personal life. some good, some not so good. i have had people come into my life that have ended up meaning more to me than i ever thought possible. some of these people have built me up, kept me going, and encouraged me in many ways. others have brought me down and made me question everything i've ever known.

i'm slowly learning that we have to stay strong for ourselves. and we have to stay strong for those people we care about. we have to love them no matter what because this life we live is such a crazy roller coaster ride. we simply have to take things one day at a time and hope like hell that it's all going to work out.



another thing we have to do- is allow our friends to make us laugh.
if you want a good laugh this morning, head over to jennifer's blog and you'll be sure to get one (at my expense). you may or may not get to read an old letter i wrote her in high school.

6.19.2013

easy as pie.

my dad is quite possibly the best cook in the world. maybe i'm just partial to his awesome home cooking or the fact that he went to culinary school...either way- he's a magician in the kitchen, ya'll.
over the weekend my dad and nieces went to town on my dad's cherry trees and picked a million bajillion cherries. so naturally, i had to take a bag home with me... along with my dad's famous cherry pie recipe.

i was so anxious to give this a try. mainly because i knew how good it could possibly turn out and because your girl is never able to turn down a sweetsie. so with knowing that an entire pie would be waiting in my fridge to jump in my belly... i was on it like white on rice.

what you will need:
a boat load of fresh cherries. my dad's measurements on this part weren't really exact. he just handed me a freezer bag full and told me that i needed my pie to be "heaping". okay...

2 pie crusts from the freezer section, which you will want to set out and unthaw while you prepare everything else. don't make the mistake i did at first and try to buy the graham cracker pie crusts. those are not right. oopsies.
1 cup of sugar.
4 (very full) tablespoons of self rising flour.
1/4 teaspoon (or a dash) of salt.
1/2 tablespoon of cinnamon.

to start with you're going to want to get comfortable. turn on some PLL and grab you a glass of wine.
because this first part takes the longest and it's quite possibly the dirtiest/ wettest of them all.
yes, you will be covered in cherry juice and will want to shower while your pie bakes.
you are about to squeeze the seeds out of each individual cherry. yep. the fun part.

now that your cherries are ready to be used. pre-heat that oven of yours to 375degrees so it will be ready to go in a few minutes... because your steps now are pretty easy and quick.
next you are going to add your sugar, flour, salt, and cinnamon to your bowl of now seedless cherries.
mix that baby up really good with a large spoon and voila- you have your pie filling!

pour your pie filling mixture into (one) of your pie crusts, leaving the metal-ish shell on the bottom of crust.
spread it out nice and even so each piece will be filled with yummy-goodness, of course.

now you are going to wet the outer edges of your bottom crust with your finger.
this makes it easier for the top crust to mold into the bottom.

speaking of the top crust- it's time to put that baby on there. without the metal-ish cover.
this part wasn't exactly easy for me. which is why the top of my pie didn't turn out the prettiest. BUT i got it on there and got it covered, so that's all that matters. right?

if you want your pie to bake correctly, you're going to need to give it some air. which is where your creativity comes into play. since this was my first stab at making a pie, i simply cut slits in the top. i would love to get really good at this and be able to cover my pie in a criss cross manner at the top (you know, how real pies are supposed to look)... but this will do for now.

oh and hey, guess what... all that's left is the baking in that warm oven you've already got pre-heated at 375degrees.

pop her in there for 25-30 minutes, or until she turns golden brown and starts to bubble out cherry juice.
let her cool for proper cutting. and you. are. done.
now serve it with some yummy vanilla ice cream and i promise you will be the happiest person alive.

and you can officially call yourself a true southern belle now.
you've just made your very first, homemade, pie. om nom nom.
thank, papa bear! 

6.18.2013

being a hormonal female can really suck.

i have recently discovered something about myself. okay so maybe this isn't exactly a recent discovery... and that is the fact that i can have about 40923804 different moods in one day month. i know it has something to do with the obvious- being a female. but it's something that really bugs me. i struggle with the fact that i can be so happy, carefree, laid back, and not worried... to down, sad, unmotivated, and overall frustrated with all that i have going on.

i also know that it's all contributed to the way that i think about things. the way that i perceive other's viewpoints on myself, whether i'm confident in myself and what i am currently doing, etc. there is always so much that plays a part in the way that i am feeling. and a lot of times it has to do with the way in which i over think everything in my life. i seriously know that if i stopped analyzing every last detail i would be much better off. but that is so much easier said than done. trust me.

some things that i have found that really help me stay positive are:
-praying. this calms me more than anything. any time i struggle with the way i view myself or if i am going through a difficult time... this is what gets me through.
-my family. because they love me unconditionally. they help me see the best parts about me and constantly remind me that i am loved. plus- they're a pretty amazing bunch.
-best friends. the ones that lift you up, make you laugh, and cause you to forget about everything you're over thinking at the time. which is generally everything.
-staying away from facebook. we all know that the constant engagements, weddings, pregnancy announcements, etc. can really hit home when you're not at the same point in life as all of your friends. so just disconnect yourself from it all for a while. i promise this is a big one.
-music. i can get completely lost in music and forget about everything going on. or i can just dwell in the fact that i'm
-the gym. because running and lifting the hell out of some weights just feels good.
-pinterest. those darn quotes get me every time. and the shopping ideas don't hurt either.
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i would love to get more tips on how to focus on staying positive and keeping this mind of mine in check. so send them my way ladies...
i know you all deal with similar things.
we are girls after all.

6.17.2013

lake days and racing: weekend shenanies.

have you ever had one of those days where you can't seem to keep your head off of your desk because you're so tired?? well today is one of those days for me. probably because my weekend was yet another one filled with running around and doing way too much.
although, i wouldn't ever have it any other way.

friday M and i had a very relaxing evening, which was just what the two of us needed.
in bed before 11pm?? yes, please...

saturday was a girls day spent at the lake. my nieces are the biggest lake fans i have ever met, so they had a ball swimming, building sand castles, and feeding baby ducks.
and i finally got to work on this pale skin of mine.
 

saturday night i met M at his parent's house and we headed over to the tri-county race track for some dirt racing. i had never in my life even stepped foot near a race track, so it was quite the experience to say the least.
despite how dirty we got, how out of place i probably looked, and the fact that i wouldn't let M leave my side the whole time due to sketchy people... i had so much fun! now i'm ready for my first NASCAR race...

sunday i headed over to my little home town and spent the day with my daddy.
that man... ya'll he's amazing. he has shown me so much in life and has taught me more than i could ever have imagined. he is the true definition of what a dad should be and i couldn't imagine anyone else fulfilling this role in my life. love you, papa bear, always and forever!

Sami's Shenanigans

6.14.2013

beach brain a little early.

i know we're not supposed to sit around and wish our days away. we're supposed to embrace the day we have and
yada yada yada, blah blah blah.
but ya'll. i am taking a weeks vacation to sunny florida in 37 days.
and i'm really stinking excited about it. and i wish more than anything that it would hurry up and get here.
i haven't taken a vacation from work for more than a weekend trip in 3 years. so this is kind of a big deal.
this may also be why i'm already counting down my days.

now... what am i going to do until then? the obvious, of course: shop. plan. and pack.
okay, who are we kidding... i won't be actually packing until maybe a few hours before we leave. but good try julia.
i am the biggest sucker in the world for a good list. especially if said list is in regards to the beach.
it also helps calm my excitement down a little bit.

this is what i have so far...
-bathing suits. my credit card is currently hating victoria's secret right now. but their semi annual sale could not have come at a better time. ps- they're offering an extra 20% off all swimwear online this weekend. boom!
-cover ups. i think i'm good in this department. i have a thing for little sundresses. 
the only other thing i may want is one of these men's button ups. because let's be honest- that's pretty cute.
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-sandals. also good in this department. my feet only see close toed shoes for the gym in the summer.
-dresses. see my comment on cover ups. i don't have plans to put on real clothes the whole week.
-sunscreen. because this little baby is scotch-irish and can turn into a lobster in .5 seconds.
-sun hat. now this. this is where i'm having problems. do i go for the extra large sun hat- maybe even with a monogram... or for the fedora look. i just can't decide, which is a problem because i might end up with both.
via ... via.
i need more ideas to keep my mind busy for the next month or so...
and fun things to buy... so send them my way, people! 

6.12.2013

corn hole is a weird word.

it's wednesday and that means i'm supposed to write something really clever about pinterest, what i wore, someone's wedding (because it obviously wouldn't be mine), or give you advice about beauty products.
but, alas, i'm not doing any of that today. and that's okay.

i'm contributing it to the fact that i'm tired. it's not friday. and i truly have nothing exciting to share right now.
but again, that's okay... right snooks?

i did, however, make it to a corn hole tournament at a mexican restaurant last night with the boyfriend and best friend. don't worry, i held down the sidewalk sitting and cheerleading really well. i don't exactly do corn hole and i definitely don't do corn hole tournaments. (does that word not sound dirty to you?? corn hole, not tournaments. duh.)
because my ability to suck really bad at the game is sheer awesome.

tell me something exciting. i need the entertainment.
but- do NOT tell me about the season premiere of PLL last night.
i haven't gotten to watch it yet and i might cut you if you ruin it... kidding.

6.10.2013

ballerinas and weddings.

that was, in a nutshell, what my weekend consisted of.

3 of my 4 nieces had their ballet recital on saturday. so of course being the awesome aunt that i was, i had to head over to my hometown to help them get ready, take pictures, and watch the show.
ya'll. it was too stinking cute for words! those girls have my heart and i cherish every minute i'm able to watch them grow up.
i love the fact that my sister and her husband put them in ballet- and i love even more that the girls enjoy it.
i'm actually a little jealous that they enjoy it so much. the one year i tried ballet as a kid, i ended up throwing my prop off stage and sitting down crying. yeah- i wasn't a big fan of dancing in public. (until college, obviously)

saturday evening M and i had yet another wedding to attend.
this one was in the town we live in, thankfully, but we still had to bust our butts to make it on time (the ballet recital ended right before the wedding began... and they were in towns 45 minutes from each other). 
so to say that i was a little rushed and frustrated might have been an understatement. but all of the running around was so worth it.
it's stuff like that you can't afford to miss, people!
and ending our night at a wedding with amazing friends is always worth it.


obviously sunday we did absolutely nothing.
well- except sleep in, eat really bad junk food, and watch movies.
and trust me, that's just what we needed.

Sami's Shenanigans

6.07.2013

baby in the rain, but i'm still fly.

let's just talk about the fact that i am ridiculously proud of myself this morning.
home girl drove... by herself... in the pouring rain... on the highway... AND passed a tractor trailer on the way.
i know i sound like a 15 year old just got her permit baby. but well, sometimes i think that i am just that on the road.
i don't know when it happened or why... but i developed a downright FEAR of driving on the highway, in the rain, around tractor trailers.
i even had to pull over and let M drive on our last road trip to charlotte because it started to rain.
it's pretty sad and embarrassing. and trust me- i'm working on it.

i just thought i'd share my tid bit of pride with everyone this morning.
and link up with beth for feel good friday.
now i'm off to a work day, a double date, a ballet recital, and a wedding... in one weekend.
wish me luck.

oh. don't forget to back it up with whitney.
it'll start your day off right, promise.

Still Fly by Big Tymers on Grooveshark

6.06.2013

poppin' pills...

okay fine, they're vitamins.

flinstone gummies and vitamin c wafers were an every day chore growing up.
my mother would seriously shove them down our throats hand them to us with breakfast every single morning.
as a kid i hated them only because they were something that we had to do. 
so as i got older and i started making my own decisions (mis-matched socks, britney spears dance offs, and AIM screen name choices) 
i quickly ditched the whole vitamin taking thing and never looked back.
such a rebel.

when i finally started to realize that my health was somewhat of an important thing (post college obviously)
because this was me from 2006-2010...
healthy lifestyle i was living in those 4 years... ha.

i really started looking into what my body was missing out on about 3 years ago.
like i said- post college.
and not for any reason in particular. just because i got curious.
i asked my regular doctor, my "female" doctor, and my mother (who knows all)
what would be best for me at this time in my life...
and i finally got myself on a vitamin regimen that works for me.

ya'll i can't believe i went so long without taking vitamins on a daily basis.
when i skip a day without taking them i can always tell a huge difference in the way i feel and even in my mood.

because of this i wanted to share with you what i take every morning.
granted, this will be different for each person- considering not one body is alike... 
but some of these are pretty common.
*consult with your doctor before starting anything though!
because i am by no means a medical professional- ha.

women's one daily:// a good combination of everything extra that women need.
pretty simple concept. plus it has folic acid in it for anyone that thinks they one day might want kids,
which helps prevent neural tube defects and must be taken prior to conception.
biotin:// for the hair, skin, and nails- this stuff is my favorite.
prenatals are also good for this! and no, you don't have to be preggo my leggo.
vitamin b:// gives your metabolism a little boost and gives you energy. 
it's also good for hangovers.
vitamin d:// immune support. so yours truly isn't sick all of the time.
or just go lay in the sun- that works too.
gingko biloba:// promotes circulation, helps you focus, and keeps that memory on point.
because sometimes i think i have ADD and this helps.
st. john's wort:// hello mood adjuster, my boyfriend thanks you.

i also take vitamin c and echinacea when i think i may be getting a cold.
and melatonin for sleepless nights.
but i don't take any of those on a daily basis.

oh and the thought of the original vitamin c wafers from the 80's still makes my mouth water. 
i loved those things! and now i can't find them anyyyywhere! 
so if you happen to stumble upon them- send them my way!

what are some vitamins you take on a regular basis?

6.05.2013

pinterest lovins.

i feel it only appropriate to share some of my pinterest finds every week at this point. 
because they're that good.
or at least i think so.


one:// i am obsessed with everything about this picture. 
from the california scenery, to the style, to the car. just ahhhh.
two:// pretty sure i need to re-create this.
three:// now this. this is the truth, ya'll. 
four:// the grown up's version of a grilled cheese. om nom nom.


one:// those are basic wooden pallets just stained. take a second and appreciate that.
two:// ohhh, this room!! i am loving everything about it.
three:// is she not the cutest little muffin? so classy- i love it.
four:// take me here. right now.
five:// bows on bows. i need this.

6.03.2013

i lounge, he boards: weekend recap.

friday after work i had myself a nice little date with my running shoes and lake junaluska.
this is one of my favorite spots in the world, ya'll.
it is so relaxing it should be a crime.
that is until you run into a swarm of geese that want to attack you. that's always nice.
after my run i was really healthy and cancelled out my exercise by going to a local steak house with M for dinner.
om nom nom. it was so worth it.

saturday M and i took a little road trip up to his brother's house in tennessee.
this was my first time meeting his older brother and his family,
so i was a ball of excitement the whole way there.
we spent the entire day on their boat at the hiawassee river...
i became convinced i need to move to tennesee.
the pretty scenery & no state tax thing might have something to do with it.
i did a whole lot of lounging.
while M showed me his mad wake boarding skills.
he gave me such a hard time for not trying it... (chicken, i know)
but his sore muscles yesterday proved that i made the right decision on this one- hehe.

sunday this little girl was down right exhausted. 
we made a pit stop halfway home on our road trip at M's parent's house...
(gotta get that good ol' home cooking while we can)
and since it was doing nothing but monsooning outside, we felt it appropriate to nap pretty much all day.
nap days are my favorite days, for sure.

and mondays are not my favorite days.

Sami's Shenanigans